7 rituals you’ll underestimate… until they change everything

You went on vacation to unplug, but… what if this were also the best moment to reconnect with yourself? Summer gives us what’s scarcest the rest of the year: time. Time to pause, notice, feel. And time to listen to ourselves, without noise.

This article is for you if, even on vacation, your mind keeps running. If fully disconnecting is hard, or you sense something inside you wants to be heard. Because there’s a simple, powerful, deeply transformative tool that can help you reset: writing by hand.

You don’t need experience or special talent. Just the desire to be with yourself and let the ink work its magic. With a fountain pen, a notebook, and seven very simple rituals, you can turn your summer into a personal turning point. 

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7 writing rituals to reconnect with yourself this summer

... some take just minutes, but their echo can last a lifetime.

1. Write on waking: let go of the weight before it grabs you

When you wake up, your mind is free of filters, judgments, and structures. It’s the purest moment of the day—and the most vulnerable. Writing as soon as you get up helps you pull out what you didn’t know was inside: thoughts, emotions, ideas that would otherwise get lost as the day picks up.

Do it without worrying about form, spelling, or making sense. Let the ink flow unfiltered. It’s an emotional and mental cleanse. In the end, what you write matters less than the act itself.

The Lamy Safari or the Pelikan M600 are perfect for this ritual: light, comfortable, always ready.

2. The gratitude journal: 3 lines to change your perspective

Gratitude is one of the most transformative emotions out there. By writing three things you’re grateful for every night, you train your brain to focus on the good. They don’t have to be big: a lovely conversation, a restorative nap, a delicious meal.

This ritual changes how you see the world. Ideally, do it in a quiet space, with a pen that invites you to slow down. An Esterbrook Estie with sepia ink gives it a warm, elegant touch.

3. The loose-ideas notebook

On vacation, ideas pop up when you least expect it: walking, resting, staring at the sea. The trick is being ready to catch them. Keep a notebook on hand and a reliable pen. Don’t try to organize or judge. Just jot them down, no filter.

This is a creative deposit, a mental treasure box you can revisit later. Sometimes, in those unordered lines, you’ll find your next big decision, a new project, or simply a thought that makes you smile.

This is where the Visconti Michelangelo shines—simple, practical, perfect for writing on the fly.

4. Letters you’ll never send

This is one of the most therapeutic exercises you can do with a pen. Write a letter to someone you have unfinished business with—or to your past or future self. Writing lets you process emotions, close loops, and release words you never said out loud.

Keep the letter, tear it up, or burn it if you need to. What matters isn’t that someone reads it—it’s that you wrote it. It’s an act of honesty with yourself.

An Aurora Ipsilon with a medium nib softens the tone and makes it feel intimate.

5. The silence journal: write when you have nothing to say

Some days, nothing happens—or so we think. But when you sit with paper and make yourself write, things start to surface. From the discomfort of the blank page come the deepest reflections. Writing with no topic, no goal, just to be with yourself, is an act of pure presence.

This journal needs no structure. Just time and honesty. You can start with lines like “I don’t know what to write today…” and from there, inner worlds unfold.

Ideal for this is a Pilot Custom: smooth, understated, and dependable.

6. Rewrite your story

Sometimes we carry narratives that no longer serve us. Rewriting them—literally—is an act of power. Take a tough episode from your life and write it from a new angle: with compassion, with distance, with understanding. Or change the ending, the way a screenwriter would with a movie.

This exercise doesn’t erase what happened, but it changes how you live with it. It turns pain into learning, guilt into understanding. Do it with a pen that inspires respect for what you’re doing—but also compassion and joy. Our pick? A Benu pen, so your imagination can take off.

7. Close out summer with a letter to yourself

Write to your future self—the one going back to routine, the one who might forget how good it felt to unplug. Tell them what you learned this summer, what you don’t want to lose, what you want to keep. This letter is your anchor, your reminder.

Keep it in your notebook and set a date to open it. And when that gray or rushed day comes, read it. It’ll bring you back to yourself. You already know what you need—you just have to remind yourself. Do it with a pen that feels a bit like ritual, like a promise… such as a Sailor 1911.

One summer.

One habit.

A new version of you.

Handwriting has benefits science has already confirmed: it lowers stress, boosts memory, and strengthens mindfulness. Beyond what’s measurable, there’s something only people who write with a fountain pen know: that moment when the world goes quiet and the ink starts speaking for you.

These small rituals aren’t just summer exercises. If you make them yours, they can stay with you all year. You don’t need to overhaul your whole life to feel better. Just start with something simple. And there’s nothing simpler—or more powerful—than writing.

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